might have been the best thing happened to the Japanese climbing community.
So they won't like me, because I say the truth, but I am ok with not being liked by the narcissist.... learned a hard way.
This is how I would spend my rest day or rainy day in Ogawayama...
1) Goto Onsen(hot spring)
Takimino yu was the best place I have tried... there are some other public bathing facilyty in Kawakami valley but Takiminoyu has a little cubic booth you can put yourself in and get some privacy, and they have free wifi.
They also have so many numbers of Manga. Restaurant was good.
2) Goto Ogawayama Layback
there are some routes that you can climb in rainy day, under the roof, but if rain is not much.
There are some crags that is rain resistant, but approach is hard and winding road, also most times over hang. If you are interested, check 100 crags topo book, you will find something like Kofu Makuiwa. Those were not maintained like in Ogawayama.
3) Goto Fujimidaira Hut (Hiking)
Mizugaki is a big mountain so you can just hike. Along the trail you will check the approach to the climbing area.
Japanese climbing area is NOT marked. Trails are not clear, because we want normal hikers to be away from climbing area usually more dangerous than hiking trails.
3) Goto climbing gym
No1 climbing gym in Yamanashi is Pirania but it is kind of far. 2.5 hour drive.
Grappa is the nearest climbing gym.
https://www.grappa-bouldering.jp/
If you don't want to pay too much, there is Kose athletic park in Kofu city but that is kind of far too.
If you are visiting Japan, The world famous Yuji Hirayama's climbing gym, Base Camp may be a good choice but it takes 4 to 5 hour away from Ogawayama.
Base camp is near Tokyo, so if that rainy day is Saturday and Sunday, every outdoor climber goes to Base Camp so you can kind of socialize that day.
Ogawayama granite trad climbing
I think Japan's "Free" climbing history started when someone visited Yosemite and had shocked how different we were climbing, so basically, in the beginning we looked for Japanese version of Yosemite climbing.
So that is Ogawayama and then, Ogawayama became full of people and bolts... and bolts get older people shifted toward different crags.
So it is not very easy for a today's gym climbers... you have a certain climbs to follow... trad? Ogawayama Layback, Casablanca, Jack and Beans, Kasama Pinky, Crazy jam.
There are a lot of slab climbing too. Famous is Gama Slab. Slab is always runs out so unless you are very sure, I won't recommend if you are just visiting. 5.13 gym climber falls on 5.7 slab or 5.7 crack because in the gym, you can not learn to climb slab nor crack.
See here also.
https://allnevery.blogspot.com/2024/10/for-someone-who-wants-to-climb-ogawayama.html
Yukawa crag
40 min from Ogwayama, protection difficult but more 5.9 under. This crag was a long my home crag.
Saku
Saku welcomes climber but you have to pay for a climber 1000 yen.
The shape of the crag is very unique and protection setting need somewhat getting use to.Syosenkyo
This is the other side of the mountain of Ogawayama and south side so you can climb in winter time but it is not open to the public.
There are some very famous routes like Day dream.
Jyogasaki Kaigan
Jyogasaki is accessible by train from Tokyo and very popular winter crag but it is not open and welcomes climbers like in Ogawaya... so climbers are very careful not to bother the local people... with trash and large noise.
I wonder where is the screaming in the crag started from? That does not sound like Japanese.
Anyway, Jyogasaki is warm in the winter time and too hot in the other seasons. It's Seacliff and protection setting is difficult so it is not beginners crag.
Mikura in Okayama
Mikura is also very famous trad crag in Okayama. Past Osaka to south of Japan.
Mikura's grading is very hard. so better to climb something easy to make sure you know how it feels like before you push your grade.
hip crack 5.9Oudou Kaigan
It's in far end of Shikoku but climbers travel to climb there in the winter time, looking for a long hand jam crack, where you can climb up high without much effort.
This is FebruaryEndwall
New trad crag in Kyusyu. I'd like to go if I have a partner. 4 hour drive from Fukuoka international air port and it's in the south end of Japan. This crag is also granite.
Granite climbing
more or less, Japanese trad climbing is granite climbing... exceptions are Jyogasaki and Yukawa.
I wrote a letter to my dad. It was my homework to write a letter to him. It took me a while to get ready to write to him since I haven't seen him since I was 6 or 7. I don't really remember him or his face.
My image of my dad is somewhat a mixture of three men: Mikami, Aoki, and Araki. They are all my climbing mates: one was my guide, another was my mentor, and the last was my partner.
All of my therapists wondered why I climbed with such people, who seem obvious to avoid if you are a wise climber. Now I realize why: I wanted to know my biological dad without actually seeing him, so I wouldn't get heartbroken again. My dad had already hurt me once, and going near him again would be a bad move. But I really wanted to know why he had to abandon us, his three kids.
Sadly, I found out that there was no reason except for his irresponsibility and narcissism. My dad just wanted a beautiful woman, my mom, as his trophy, and wanted to use her as he wished, with zero responsibility on his side. So my mom was trapped.
I found out these facts by actually learning from life, observing people in similar situations as my dad. Mikami had six kids and still blamed his wife for having them. What a fool for not avoiding pregnancy. Maybe once or twice could be an accident, but six times? He was just a fool.
Aoki was my climbing mentor and was so proud of his ice climbing. But I was rapidly getting better by the end of our partnership, and he did not like the fact that I surpassed him. This made me realize something was wrong. Every climbing mentor should be happy if his apprentice becomes a better climber than him. He was not. So he climbed with me only because it was his only choice.
The last was my ex-climbing partner. He was so stupid that he couldn't even count 25 plus 35—basic math. He still thinks that climbing is his success, too dumb to know what good climbing is. Moreover, he announced how dumb he is to the entire climbing community by putting up a record of Sawanobori in Kurosukeote using aid climbing in the 2020s. It's been 40 years since free climbing became the norm, not aid climbing. Writing a record in aid is a thing of the past, unless it is something much greater than today's top climbs, like Shomyo Falls. This illustrated how stupid he is and how beginner climbers had lost the minimum intelligence of knowing today's climb.
In the end, I unconsciously wanted to do my research on my biological dad by observing someone else who seemed similar to him. That's why I went so close to such dangerous people, risking my life.
I enjoyed this climb without non of those peopleMy trauma at age 2
Moan to the lost father
Today was my 4th session with my therapist on how I lost my father...
My father had pushed me into a water when I was only two years old.
I was so unaware of this violence until I had some similar experience in my climbing.
I never knew it was the oldest memory with my father.
The memory came back to me visually, not verbally because 2 year old is too young to gain language.
My therapist says I has to grief that I lost my father, he died inside of me...
My honest feeling is that I never really had any father from the beginning so I did not really see the needs of griefing.
Bad man and good man?
I can not distinguish from a good man and a bad man... which caused me a lot of troubles... being taken an advantage as a woman in my adolescent.
This repeatedly occurs... which I would like to stop.
I am taking a session once a week but I feel down a whole day when I have a session.... so it is really heavy on me...
I never imagined that I need to grief that I did not have a father... who give me a protection as a kid.... because my "actual biological father " was someone who is better not to have.
I was certainly feeling sorry for my mom when I was a kid... for not having a breadwinner.
But I never really felt I sad that I don't have a dad because my own particular biological father was so abusive and drunk all the time I was thankful that he was not around.... better not to have him.
So the negative side of not having a protection from male parent was a blind spot.
I was so thankful that he, my father, as an individual was not around but that's does not eliminate the healthy mental need for a young child of needing to be supported by someone stronger than she/he is.
I was just sad and feeling vulnerable, that I did not have any father like figure ... a protection.
Being a climber put me into the same situation as my childhood...when you are stepping up the ladder of climber, you need a step-by-step support from the other climbers... like a secure belay is what everyone needs from the beginning to the end.
And I never had any reliable belayer on my own. The partners I have gotten was a bad belayer or someone who has less skills of protecting his climbing partner.
When my climbing partner put me in a crisis I felt a despair... a sort of... that I felt very very powerless that I can be easily pushed toward death.
But think of it, is it really correct?
No, I can take care of myself now as a climber, saying no to dangerous plan and not safe climbing ...
Now the question is why I am seemed to be attracted toward those climbers who is obviously dangerous.... I feel obliged to save them.
This feeling... being obliged to correct them and save them from doing wrong, is still a big mystery to me too....
I just don't know why I feel this way.
亡き父への呻き
今日はセラピストとの4回目のセッションだった。
私がまだ2歳のとき、父は私を水の中に突き落とした。
クライミングで同じような経験をするまで、私はこの暴力を知らなかった。
それが父との一番古い記憶だとは知らなかった。
2歳というのは言葉を獲得するにはまだ幼すぎるからだ。
セラピストは、私は父を失ったことを悲しまなければならない、父は私の中で死んだのだと言う。
私の正直な気持ちは、私には最初から父親がいなかったから、悲しむ必要性がわからなかったということだ。
悪人と善人?
私は良い男と悪い男の区別がつかない...そのせいで、思春期に女として劣位に立たされたことがある。
このようなことが繰り返されるのを止めたいです。
週に1回セッションを受けているのですが、セッションを受けると1日落ち込んでしまうので...本当に気が重いです...。
父親がいないことを悲しむ必要があるなんて...子供の頃に私を守ってくれた父親がいないことを悲しむ必要があるなんて...。
確かに子供の頃は、稼ぎ手がいないことを母に申し訳なく思っていた。
でも、父親がいないことを悲しいと思ったことはない。なぜなら、私の特定の実の父親は、いつも酔っ払っていて、虐待ばかりしていたからだ。
だから、男親からの保護がないというマイナス面は盲点だった。
父という個人がそばにいないことはとてもありがたかったけれど、だからといって、幼い子どもにとって、自分より強い人に支えられたいという健全な精神的欲求がなくなるわけではない。
私はただ、父親のような存在......守ってくれる存在......がいないことを悲しみ、弱さを感じていた。
クライマーという職業に就いて、私は子供時代と同じような状況に置かれた......クライマーというハシゴを上っていくとき、他のクライマーからの段階的なサポートが必要なのだ......まるで、最初から最後まで確実なビレイが誰にでも必要なように。
僕は一人では信頼できるビレイヤーに巡り会えなかった。 私のパートナーは、下手なビレイヤーか、クライミング・パートナーを守るスキルの低い人だった。
クライミング・パートナーが私を危機に陥れたとき、私は絶望を感じた...ある種の...私は簡単に死に向かって突き進むことができるという、とてもとても無力な気持ちになった。
でも考えてみて、本当にそれでいいのだろうか?
いや、クライマーとして、危険な計画や安全でないクライミングにノーと言うことで、今は自分のことは自分でできる......。
今問題なのは、明らかに危険なクライマーになぜか惹かれてしまうことだ。彼らを救わなければならない。
この感覚......彼らを正し、彼らの間違った行動を救わなければならないという義務感......は、私にとってもいまだに大きな謎だ......。
なぜそう感じるのか、自分でもわからない。
DeepL.com(無料版)で翻訳しました。
Advises for climbers visiting Mizugaki (No1 trad crag in Japan)
Rope
Bring two rope. Most people bring 50m double rope.
Japanese most routes are created when regular rope length was 40m so longest pitch in a multipitch route, often 35m.
Food
There is Nana's, the only supermarket in the neighborhood and every climber goes there to shop the food, so it is kind of like, you go here to meet your friend.
https://maps.app.goo.gl/dAFekvSvG2ydAEpJ6
Climbing shop
In the next to Nana's, there is a climbing shop Rock Roof and they will know all the beta that you need to know.
Climbing Gym
The best and most renown climbing gym in the neighborhood is, Pirania, in Yamanashi. It's a small local gym but Tokio Muroi is working there who wrote "Kurohon" in bouldering, he is not a trad climber but he knows everything visiting climber needs to know.
Climbing Guide
Yusuke Sato is the most reliable, knowledgeable guide in the neighborhood but he may be out of town... for his own climbing trip.
Freeclimbing Instructor's association
If Yusuke is not available, then make an inquiry to this place, for alternative guide. the Guide may be living in Tokyo or Nagano, not Yamanashi...
https://climbing-instructor.jp/
Guideless?
Yes, you can. It is not difficult to get to a camp site "Syokujyusai park". Approach to the Toichimen iwa is easy, it is the same as hiker's trail and if you miss it, you go simply toward the summit of Mr.Mizugaki. Oozura and Kozura, I don't know but there are lot of subtle climbers trails there and I think you need to get used to it.
I have climbed there several short routes and one multipitch... there are so countless routes there...
The photo is one that I am climbing, my first onsite on 5.8 crack.
瑞牆の5.8Rental Car
If you rent the car in Narita air port, driving is so long and tough.
Locals will come to Nirasaki JR station(most close) or Kofu station(the nearest city), then rent a car.
Toyota
https://rent.toyota.co.jp/sp/shop/detail.aspx?rCode=63901&eCode=011
NicoNico
https://www.2525r.com/yamanashi/nirasaki/store-01145-002.html
Short Trip
You can go to Yatsugatake mountains for a long nice mountain climb in your rest day. Also, Tokyo is a great city to have a sightseeing.. I stayed in hotel owl last month in Uguisu dani. Nearest city is Kofu city and they have sightseeing spots like Shingen Jinjya and others.
Ueno
The diploma award ceremony for molecular nutrition was in Nihonbashi, so I looked for a place to stay nearby.
This time I stayed at HostelOwl, a small handmade capsule, but it was comfortable and next to a public bathhouse for only 2,500 yen. I would recommend it to climbers going to the Tokyo area.
I used to stay at the Intercontinental for a month when I was in Wellington on business and at the CandlewoodSuite when I was in Kansas for a month.
https://www.ihg.com/candlewood/hotels/us/en/overland-park/mkcgv/hoteldetail
That's I had to stay in a hotel room all day long, working 16 hours at a desk, so I think it's worth it to pay this much.(Actually company took care of the cost)
From there, I grew to the point where I could complete staying in a tent stay all by myself in the mountains, even in -25C cold.
I've come a long way, come to think of it.
Confidence that no one can take away
So this is the confidence that no one can take away from me.
range of experience.
I have a wider range of experiences. It broadens our horizons. My perspective is much wider than normal Japanese, and that is my source of confidence.
I think that is the meaning of having experience and being adulthood.
If I were to stay in a hotel all the time, you will only know what's like this hotel and that hotels... I think it is boring.
Memories of Ueno
This time, after the diploma ceremony, I had dinner with climber friends in Ueno.
What made me happiest was that I was able to treat that older, senior climber to dinner.
I have excessive amount of love and I just want to love without being taken advantage of.
The young climbers takes advantage of you and oversea climbers too. I am not that dumb.
This older climber supported me when I was trying to be an alpine climber. He still gives me advices and support me. When I went to Hatatate iwa middle ridge, he was my second climber.
It is a route that offers a miniature version of an alpine route, starting with rappelling but requiring route finding and in the top you will join in to hikers.
I still have a picture of it as a proud moment in my life. If I were to die, I would recall that moment and remember him as an important person who climbed with me.
Ueno
In Ueno, the cherry blossoms had not yet bloomed. I remembered that when I was in college, I came from Osaka to visit the art museum in Ueno to see an exhibition of Georgia O'Keeffe.
My childhood was full of good museum days. My mother was a graduate of the Tokyo Women's Institute of Fine Arts, so it was a tradition in my family to go see every major exhibition that came along. So the art museum and the forest attached to it became my home.
When I was in my first year of college, I was longing for Tokyo and visited a classmate from junior high school who had gone on to Hitotsubashi University, but was surprised to find a one-room apartment in a distant suburb (Machida) that was not Tokyo in name only....
My friend who went on to Waseda University lived in a boarding house near Toshimaen, which was not even a one-room apartment, and had a shared bathroom. I was surprised at how rural it was....
Seeing this, I was living in a student dormitory in Minoh, an hour by bus from the last train station in North Osaka, and I thought that the big city was just as far away from the city as if I were living outside of Osaka.
After seeing O'Keeffe's exhibition, I immediately went to work in the U.S. and lost all longing for Tokyo and the big city....I now prefer to be in a nature, country side.
It was as if, after visiting Laos or Ryu-dong, me losing interest in crags in Japan.
I was able to go back to Ueno, the place I had always longed to visit, and treat my senior who had taken care of me so well....
Thinking of my long and distant journey, I felt that I had grown up completely as an adult.
Yes, the age of crying and saying, "Help me Dad! " is over.
I was no longer at the age of crying out.
Of course, seniors give us all kinds of life advice.
Especially as I myself am now at the age of starting to age, how I should face the rocks...those things, of course, are taught by those seniors who have already gone before me.
I have always thought so, but free climbing is, from the alpine point of view, just an Enjoyable Climbing after retirement (laughs). Nothing serious.
A young man took my picture.
In Ueno Park, where the cherry blossoms had not yet bloomed, there was one place where only one cherry tree was in bloom.
I wandered around there... because I wondered if someone would take a commemorative photo of me. That's what I was thinking.
Then, a young man in his twenties, who looked like a young, flirtatious guy, recognized me... and despite his appearance, he quickly understood and said, "Shall I take your picture?" I could tell that he was a very considerate man because of the way he said it, which was very easy to get into my mind and without any pretense.
People judge people by their appearance, and we learn this in our adult life... Of course, after my office worker days when I strolled around Marunouchi in a suit, we learn that people are influenced by their appearance, and if you want to get good service, you have to wear a good suit... And then, as an adult And as we grow up, we learn that looks don't matter....
Inner Father, Inner Mother
The mountains of Okuchichibu raised me: the Southern Alps and the Maeho North Ridge. The days in Shosenkyo.... The ascent of Mitsutoge. Climbing with Iwacchan in Okuchichibu and Ogawayama. The time with the late Mr. Yoshida. The days of multi climbing in Insubon. And ice climbing days.
My mother is the students who followed me in yoga.
■ Home crag of the most famous Japanese climber Yuji
Futago yama crag is the home crag of the most famous Japanese top climber Yuji Hirayama.
Futagoyama is the closest Lime stone crag from Tokyo, Japan, so here is how to get there.
https://www.thecrag.com/en/climbing/japan/area/701582580
■ How to get to Chichibu
The crag is in town of Ogano, but the closet train station are; Chichibu Station or Seibu Chichibu.From Tokyo, you can take express train(900yen extra) from Ikebukuro Stn. to Seibu Chichibu Station.
Or you can also use Omiya station to come to Chichibu station.
both takes about 2 hours, or bit less.
There are a lot of stores and tourist attractions in Chichibu such as Chichibu Jinjya, and supermarket, Onsen, hotels and gust houses. So you will not be in left alone in a desert... no worry. you can find a place to sleep so easily.
From Chichibu to the crag, you will need to drive, and I saw a rental car agent just beside the station.
■ Accommodation
The town of Chichibu seemed to have a lot of inexpensive guest houses...
This is my google search result:
■ Car Rental
Seibu Chichibu Station
https://24-rc.jp/shop/index.php?office_id=0050
https://saitama.rl-toyota.co.jp/rentalcar/shop_search/seibu_chichibu/
■ Temples You can visit by rented car
https://www.pref.saitama.lg.jp/b0112/kanko-tiiki-info/renta17.html
■ Climbing gym
https://www.town.ogano.lg.jp/crimeshin2/info/2024/03/295/
■ Local Crag Rule (https://www.oganoclimbing.com/%E8%A4%87%E8%A3%BD-%E4%BC%9A%E5%93%A1%E5%90%91%E3%81%91%E7%89%B9%E5%88%A5%E6%A1%88%E5%86%85%E6%97%A5%E3%81%AB%E3%81%A4%E3%81%84%E3%81%A6)
Climbing is a dangerous activity that can result in death or injury. Rocks are fragile in places and can move, peel, and fall.
Also, the support points (bolts, termination points, etc.) placed on the rocks are not completely secure. Futagoyama has had many accidents involving fatalities and injuries due to slips and falls while climbing, and care must be taken when walking on the approach.
Please fully understand the above and climb at your own risk. The following requests are made with respect for the history and culture of climbing in the area, while at the same time balancing the various conditions of the area.
In principle, please do not walk on approaches where there are no footprints (to avoid distress and to protect the vegetation).
Please do not walk at night without headlamps.
Please do not descend the mountain alone at night.
In principle, quickdraws and bolts may not be left in the climbing area for more than one season.
Climbing gear (ropes, etc.) may not be left in the climbing area.
Some climbing areas are equipped with only hangers with rings and no remaining carabiners.
In such cases, please make sure you have mastered the rope tying technique.
Do not take out (retrieve) carabiners left at the end point or carabiners left to prevent shaking.
If you notice anything wrong with the bolts, please contact the Association as soon as possible.
If you notice any unusual bolts, please contact the Association as soon as possible. [Please refrain from climbing at night except in unavoidable circumstances. [Please do not roll stones or rocks on the approach or slope into the valley.
If you notice any floating rocks or missing holds on the route, please contact the Association immediately.
[Please do not cut down trees. Please contact the Association in case of danger or other necessity.
[Fires are strictly prohibited.
[Please use the restroom before heading to the crag. Please use the restroom before heading to the crag.
If you need to go to the crag in a hurry, please take your excrement and any waste (paper, etc.) with you. In principle, do not walk at night, with or without a headlamp. When walking for the first time, be sure to walk with an experienced walker.
Please be very careful to avoid falling rocks, as there may be people below you. If you happen to cause a rock to fall, shout "Raku! If you see a falling rock, please shout "Rak! When parking, please make sure that there is enough space for emergency vehicles to pass, and that there is enough space for them to turn around. When parking, please be careful of rocks falling from the slope.
In the event of an accident, please contact the people around you, or contact us at the following e-mail address. Kogano Climbing Association oganoclimbing@gmail.com www.oganoclimbing.com
Translated with DeepL.com (free version)
Stephen Gilligan's workshop
I am on 4days seminar of Stephen Gilligan, today was the first day of that 4days.
In my climbing activities, I was always in my zone, like some people experience runner's high. In my case, my ice climbing was my zone.
With rock, it gets harder to me since it requires more finger power, so I moved on to trad. That way, I don't need finger power, I can jam, so I was more of trad climber than sport climber...
I mostly climbed in Ogawayama, Mizugaki, Jyogasaki, and Syosenkyo. Especially Syosenkyo was memorable place for me.
Anyway my main interest in climbing is to enter zone, and be connected to my inner self, which some people call it "inner god", and that leds me to Steve Long, of UIAA when I asked him to publish UIAA alpine summer in Japanese, that was an act of my inner god. (Links here)
Kyusyu my born place
After coming here in Kyusyu, my inner god keeps saying me to stop climbing, it even created so many injuries... my right leg cuff torn, my right leg knee dislocated, and the last year my Achilles tendon had raptured... what is going on?
In a 5 pitch 5.11 trad multi-pitches called Hakua slab, I was doing a second, and the lead climber had connected 25 m and 35m pitch in one, and our rope was 50 m single. We did not bring our backup rope because he was so proud of announcing we did it without backup!
I was taken my sweet spot that I was sorry for him not being able to find a climbing mate.
In that connected pitch, I climb up about 5 m from my belay point to help him, so he will have a bit more rope lengths, I had no way of telling that he connected 2 pitches with 50 m rope. When I got up, I saw we both were hanging on just one bolt and the bolt was something called cut-anchor, 40 year old and it strength is said to be 5kN much weaker than regular red Camelot, and we trad climber all know we never put our entire life on just one protection.
25 + 35 is a way too longer than 50 m, very obviously, so he had to stop climbing anyway, somewhere in a middle of the pitch. Without proper anchor... meaning two bolts in sport routes ... but we hang on just one cut-anchor.
We barely survived this climbing but he mentioned on the spot,
"In retrospect, I should have gotten 60 m rope" ...
Do you see how stupid this word is? 25 +35 is 60, so 60 m rope still will not do, obviously... how are you going to bult an belay point with?
I never thought this dumb he could be... not just him, any other climbers... I knew they are pretty dumb but this dumb???
He must have not seen a topo(a guide book that climber use) so he is the worst kind of climber who will put his partner in death by neglecting a basic safety in climbing, such as seeing a topo before you go to a route.
so I was having a hard time accepting his attitude as my own mistake of responding his request of doing a second for him...
I felt kind of sorry for him because he asked because he had no one else but me.
At the same time, a flashback memory of my dad pushing me... 2years old, into a water started.
My background
I had lost my younger brother when he was 24, so I am extra sweet to young guys... and not very intelligent guy...because my bro was not intelligent type, he did not do so well academically.
But I must stop reflecting my younger bro, to a rope partner, who can be the stupidest person I ever seen in climbing community.
Now I am very careful. Last time, someone from Costa Rica wanted to climb with me but I let her go. She had no rope with her. No car. No draw. Nor belay device. Just harness and shoes.
So today, in Steve Gilligan's workshop, I had built my connection to mountains and found out that my swimming was a metaphor of being incubated in a mother's womb... reconnecting to inner self or bigger self, so I can be better climber when it is done.
I will swim in Kyusyu.
That is where a good tradition of Asian good daughter is inherited. Personally, Kyusyu's male tradition is disaster they still worship of 40 m runout in 5.8 when everyone can climb better nowadays. Who's life is worth of such easy routes?
So I must take care of this anger that I was almost killed and being used.
Take your time
Take your time was a message I got, so I will take my time to heal this wounds.
He had really damaged me. Me, my body, my soul, and my relationship with my husband...all at once it was endangered...
What an evil soul I have seen in Kyusyu... it is so surprising to see a climber can be this bad when his ego of showing off is so strong.
■ Shocking! a book called "The Toxic Mother"
I picked up this book, thinking that maybe my mother was a narcissist....................................shocking revelation....
Read it. Then...I found out.
My mother was a typical "narcissistic mother".
■ Free climbing is so unforgiving.
My mental resistance to step toward free climbing... was because I knew I would be told, "5.9? Climb 5.10. 5.10? Climb 5.11!" it is endless... you are never be enough.
I started climbing when I was 41 years old, and it seems like a great accomplishment to be able to onsight a 5.9 at 43, did a second climber in Insbon at 46, go climb alone in Laos, so does in trad in Taiwan? Doesn't it?
I can also lead climb ice 5th about 20 to 30 m. If second, 55m X 3 times was easy job.
Do you still say, "Push your limit" to a lady who's going on late middle age?
The free climbing world, currently going on, will not forgive you for that.
You know, people can not grow endlessly, that is a myth. We are human.
So, in my mind, I've already climbed one 11 onsight (so I have already reached my goal), and I don't see the point of going any higher in grade, by reducing finger skin, weight loss strategy, or strength training in the first place....
You have to have bent fingers if you are climber, prove it!!
That's is the nasty challenge the climbing world confronts to you. That is a threat.
As a result, so many people are mentally ill..
When I was climbing 5.9, people who were climbing 10c was super bossy, with her onsight theory, but when I started to climb 10c, I was even not allowed to loosen the reins... not just that, people asking me taking a leadership for the crag...
They are shifting their responsibility to me. Because they think I am easy target.
Isn't this "endless striving" feeling the same as in the days of studying for entrance examinations?
So everybody is a looser. No one really feel the feelings of accomplishment they deserve.
If I were a teenage competition climber, even I'd say, "Why don't you work harder while you still can? "
But that is because so you can climb in old age.
I don't think I would be aiming to win a competition at the age of 41....
I don't think it's such a bad result to be 5th in the Iwane ice competition, which I only participated in because I wanted to see if I could make it out.
I didn't understand why you wanted to involve me, a slowest starter, in such a silly competition... Tell me when you are at the top...
Adult climbing is self-satisfying from the start.
Not number one, nor only one.
■ Thanks to my narcissistic partner
I noticed my mother's narcissism because I worked with a partner who was highly narcissistic and I saw similarities in their behavioral patterns...
Huh? This person is just like my mother...? This was the event that happened....
So, it's the same as saying that I appreciate illness and injury. It means that they are there to make me aware.
This book sums it up and makes sense.
Complimentary and enabling
Enabling is a very famous concept in Alcoholic treatment… when someone is alcoholic, there is someone who is enabling him/her to be alcoholic... i.e. dependent.
My mom needed an assistant for raising her kids, and I took the position of "little housewife", so she can work... that was enabling, ie. enabling her to be full time worker, because as a household we needed a full income. so the relationship with me and my mom was complimentary...
I had realized this unhealthy parenting when my mom, started to request me that I take a full responsibility in a household. I was putting up my situation as an oldest child as a temporary states, the responsibility on the household should be shared by all of the members in my family, but she made it look like it was my sole responsibility...
I had fallen into the relationship of enabling again in my climbing activities, I am very good at rope and belaying or risk managements in severe situation, and the last of my climbing partner lacks to it...he did not seem to interest in learning the safety in climbing only because I am good at... so I felt he is very dependent, without realizing he is so... with the lead climbing in Hiei, the white slab, he could not pull up a full lengths of the rope, so I could not free-climbed the pitch. As I climbed, I saw the cam he had set was in a wrong position so the rope was stuck. That is why the rope was not up. He did not seem to understand the mistakes he made.
The last pitch he made a belay station with just one bolt, and it was 40 year old cut anchor, so there is not enough strengths... this time again I had to aid climb for him since he connected 2 pitches in one, and the rope was short for that... you can not connect 25 m and 35 m pitch when you have only 50 m rope, that is a simple sum that anyone can do, but he did it so... later I realized that he did not check with the topo guide before he climbed nor understood basic sum of rope climbing... he was perhaps not well educated in climbing also, the purpose for him to climb was to look brave, falsely brave, so he can impress everyone. I managed somehow with this climb, since I was handed down the skills to survive such poor climbing... by my two climbing mentors, especially the first one... anyway, it took me a while to realize, I am complimenting him so that poorly prepared climbers keep pouring into me, so I should look like "non-educated" instead of "well-educated" so they don't rest on my efforts...
... well what I want is competing relationship in safety management in climbing. So I can explore my own horizon of climbing, without risking my life.
Competitive mind is not my cup of tea usually, but if you fail to manage safety in climbing, that will be straight death.
Anyway, I now understood what's complimentary and symmetrical... so I would be using it in my session.
The most valuable discovery during my Achilles tendon rupture and subsequent surgery on March 1st was a newfound resilience.
Living and getting by became an immense challenge, with the need for a crutch preventing me from even going shopping.
My husband who had no intention of helping, he offered little assistance in action, I maintained my independence despite the injury that confined me.
This saddened me, as I had always been the caregiver in my relationships.
Not just with him, but in my youth, I played the role of "another small mommy" for my siblings when my own mother needed help raising us.
When faced with financial difficulties, I had to turn down expectations and prioritize my own education, since my mom gets so used to the idea that I help her always. In reality, it is unrealistic for a young girl at age 18 to work for siblings.
In the realm of climbing, I took on the responsibility of guiding newcomers, organizing knot learning classes, and facilitating the transfer of skills through the involvement of climbing guides.
Transitioning through my husband's job transfers meant sacrificing my own beloved jobs, challenging the perception of the importance of my work, as others assumed my husband was the caretaker.
The difficulty in being understood by others stemmed from the misconception that my husband was taking care of me, when in reality, it was often the opposite. The dynamic of who takes care of whom is complicated, especially when money plays a predominant role in society.
My connection with Aki, the owner of the restaurant I frequent, has become a source of solace. Aki, like me, is a strong and caring individual facing challenges in her business due to a recent move. I find myself supporting her not just for the sake of the restaurant but because we share a similar understanding of each other's struggles.
Our regular gatherings offer a space for candid conversations, allowing us to discover parallels in our lives. Recently, I pointed out a severe problem Aki was facing. she gave me a rice ball. One of my friend pointed out that my husband is "married to his work" instead of me, provided me a perspective.
so everyone once in a while, need a mirror and that mirror is your friend.
As I navigate a challenging transition from being a technical writer to a yoga teacher, I am facing struggles alone. I need a confidence but how can I be confident? Female in Japan are oppressed and has every reason to take our confidence away..
.Despite my husband's determination not to offer support, Aki has emerged as a great companion in this journey, demonstrating that relationships can form in unexpected places.
In Aki's restaurant, where everyone seems to share my experiences, I bring my friends, finding a sense of community and understanding that has been elusive elsewhere.
Unsafe climbers = someone who learnt to climb from friends
I was being asked to go climbing with by a climber who has no rope nor ATC. Being puzzled since I never dreamed of going to travel without a rope and expecting to climb, I asked advices to climbing community overseas. The answer was to say no to such climber.
Someone in Canada taught me this is also happening a lot in overseas including Canada,
It's maybe a shortage of Educational institutions to teach climbing properly.
This time, I found out that a proper climber is someone who learnt climbing in educational institution... (I myself learnt in Sangaku sougou center)
You can tell by their gear that they are not well educated.
I didn't know what to do with a guest climber who said she doesn't have a rope nor ATC, so I asked the international climbing community, "What do you guys do?"
I found that the consultation itself was a question that could separate the climbers who were doing it safely from the ones who weren't.
Difficulties
The difficult thing is, that nobody carries a full set of gear while travelling.
But without a rope... Rope is a vital piece of gear, and without it, you can't climb at all.
But someone who already established "trustworthy relationship" like long time partner, would say,
"you can come without a rope this time"
often, just to be nice. But still that is an offer, not your right.
If you are already in a relationship of mutual trust, you might say: 'This time you are exempt from the rope', but that is only when you are so sure having just one rope does not decrease the safety.
My background
I come from ice climbing background, but I rarely climbed with my own rope while climbing with my mentor, because he has gotten a 120m rope, meaning more convenient for 55m ice fall.
Nevertheless, every time I go climb with him, my rope was in my pac. I never showed up without it. When I lead, of course, I climbed with my own rope.
A single 120m rope is technically easier so using that rope was a part of risk management.
It was less risky than connecting two 60 m ropes, as there are no knot to connect them. If there is a knot, your belay gets complicated.
That was our mutual understanding. And I bought a belay device to match his rope.
Choosing a rope Length ... no1 risk control
Even at ordinary rock crags, a well-educated climber will check the length of the route or problem he wants to lead, and bring a rope that is suitable for that length. It is a primary risk management.
In general, in Japan, 50 metres used to be sufficient, but nowadays 60 metres is often required.
If you don't want to have a missing stopper knot accidents.
Back up rope?
If you're as clever as a climbing guide, you may have a 30m lightweight rope tucked away in your backpack, just in case. This is because it serves as a backup in case the main rope gets stuck or something.
When you say, "Oh no, I've got the rope stuck", you can not get it out...in such case, someone say, "I've got the back up rope", this is a truly cool guy!
Having no rope is forgivable, but no ATC is not.
Well, even in the international climber group, the advice from the proper climbers was "tell that travelling climber to keep travelling".
However, 70% of the climbers who travelled without ropes were so forgiving, it is a kindness toward a beginner. Because everyone was once a beginner, those who relied on the goodwill of other climbers... including myself.
Climbing on the goodwill of others paying nothing on your side, you can still improve your climbing grades but not a climbing skill itself...it takes your positive effort of trying to learn risk management.
Climbing grades do not indicate anything about that person's risk management skill and the risk management skill is what protect you.
It is not your grade nor expecting the strangers to have a good will without a concrete reason.
However, it should be noted that even within such a lax community,
No ATC is not allowed as a climber.
Having no rope seems already out of the question to me, but no ATC... is NONO to everyone. No matter what kind of lax climbing community you are in.
Checking unconscious assumptions.
Rather than verbal communication, non-verbal communication is important, such as, "not bringing gear" or "the way the person talks", are more indicative of what kind of climber they are. This is a true indication of the climber.
What I am currently researching is this unconscious assumption.
Assumption = unconscious.
so people take it for granted and often push that to the others.
Example:
No rope = unconscious assumption is that every rope is 100% safe.
→ Actually, no.
No ATC = unconsciousness is that all ATC are all the same.
→ In reality, the rope and ATC has compatibility.
Another possible assumption about not bringing an ATC is,
not wanting to belay,
This is probably more likely to be the case. This is probably top reason for climbers to be disrespected.
Belaying is a climber's duty and belayers are climbing gear.
You are in a position to be chosen as a belayer, and unless you are chosen, you cannot go climb.
This is an robot translation of the ogano climbing community is being sued
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In 2022, a man from Tokyo who crashed and broke both legs while climbing Mt Futago (1166 m) in Ogano, Saitama, a famous climbing spot, filed a lawsuit against the Ogano Climbing Association, which maintains the crag, and the town, claiming that the crag was not properly managed, and seeking compensation and other compensation of 1.65 million yen, The association and the town have filed a lawsuit in the Saitama District Court, Kawagoe branch, demanding compensation and other damages of 1,650,000 yen. The association and others are contesting the case on all fronts. With climbing becoming increasingly popular, the development of the lawsuit, which seeks to hold the association responsible for the management of accidents that occur at the crag, is attracting attention.
The association, established in October 2008, is a general incorporated association that promotes climbing and maintains crags. It is chaired by world-famous climber Yuji Hirayama (54). The town promotes the revitalisation of the town through climbing and has appointed Mr Hirayama as a tourism ambassador.
The accident occurred in the early afternoon of 25 September 2010 at a crag called Candle Rock on Mt Futagoyama Nishidake. The man was 59 years old at the time and a 30-year climbing veteran. A bolt on the crag, to which a rope was attached to support his body, came loose and the man fell approximately 5 metres downwards.
In his complaint, he alleged that the association established the route where the accident occurred and installed the bolt, and that the location and type of buried bolts were inappropriate. It states that the association, which is responsible for the development and rehabilitation of climbing routes on Mt Futago, had a duty of care and duty of management to maintain the safety of the route where the accident occurred. It also states that the association is involved in the activities of the town, among other things.
The first oral arguments were held on 24 August, with the association stating that 'climbing is a dangerous sport. The town submitted a written defence, stating that climbing at Futagoyama is not a town development project.
The man had three operations and was hospitalised for 55 days after the accident, and was out of hospital for two months. He is seeking compensation and other compensation as approximately 1 million yen in medical expenses were paid by his accident insurance.
Hirayama won the overall free-climbing World Cup in 1998 and 2000. He also worked as a TV commentator at the Tokyo Olympics in 2009.
'Not a town-building project'? The association's president is a tourism ambassador.
The plaintiff man is demanding that the Kogano Climbing Association and the town jointly and severally pay compensation. The town claimed in its written answer that it had nothing to do with the association, and has made statements to the same effect at council meetings. However, the history of the association's establishment and its stance of positioning "climbing as a town revitalisation project" raises some questions.
According to the article "Futagoyama Nishidake Regeneration & Development" contributed by Yuji Hirayama in the 90th issue of the specialist magazine "ROCK & SNOW" (published in December 2020), the town councillor, Koya Takahashi, dug up a proposal for town revitalisation through climbing that Hirayama had proposed about 10 years ago, which led to an interview with the mayor, Shintaro Mori. At the town's request, he was appointed as a tourism ambassador, and since May 2006 he has been working with the town to promote the town's revitalisation.
In a May 2007 press release, Mayor Mori also listed 'revitalising the town through climbing' as a new project, citing Mt Futago as an example, and stating that 'Ogano Town can be proud to be known throughout the country as a climbing town'. The paper also stated that the town would redevelop the Shin Yi Kan, a memorial centre for friendship with China, which was given to the town free of charge by the prefecture, as a base facility with the cooperation of Hirayama and others.
Mayor Mori has stated in council meetings (e.g. at the March 2009 regular meeting) that he is aware that the association is a private organisation with no connection to the town, but he attended the association's activity policy briefing in January 2011 and also addressed the meeting. Given this situation, a town official said, "Mr Hirayama is paid a fee for his cooperation in the operation of the Shinjikan, so the town may not be able to say that he has nothing to do with the association. Teruyama Tetsushi
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